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Wanna Have More Sex Fun? Watch This “Porn” and Learn How Now!

  • Written by  Gabriella Ferrari
Porn isn’t just for solo fun, it’s also a sex education tool for you and her! Porn isn’t just for solo fun, it’s also a sex education tool for you and her!

Porn is one of the biggest, craziest industries in the world. And yet you hear some women claiming porn is bad. They think it portrays girls only as sexual beings, shows violence against women, makes all women look like “sluts.”

Well yeah, big news there, some porn sucks. A lot of porn is trashy, stupid, actors and actresses are ugly, the sex is boring, the editing and lighting is amateurish.

And some porn is truly disgusting, except for the “unique” people who love it. Rape scenes, obese women crapping on guys, people drinking urine, people popping each other’s zits, yuck…who needs that? Not me.

Eager to be a better lover? Porn videos can teach you the ins and outs of great sex!

But I gotta tell you, guys, you can learn all you want to know about sex and how to  be a great lover, just by watching the right porn!

I’m not talking about “educational porn” that’s designed specifically to school us in sexual techniques, although a few of those “How to Be a Better Lover” videos are useful, and some of them can be a turn-on too.

I’m talking about real porn that’s designed to get you off, but also contains lots of easy to use techniques that’ll help your lover come and come again. Here’s what I mean…

Lesson # 1: Watching Porn That Show Girls Masturbating

Guys, you don’t have a vagina, so it’s hard for you to know how to work a woman’s vagina to give her maximum pleasure. But don’t worry…start your porn video education by watching girl masturbation videos.

They’re easy to find on YouPorn, Xhamster, Redtube, abbywinters.com, pornhub and a few others. Most of these sites give you free videos, but watch out for the live porn chick pop-ups and webcams!

View several girl masturbation videos to find the ones featuring girls who really are masturbating rather than just faking it. You know, faking it is a big problem in porn. But there are plenty of videos showing girls actually getting themselves off. Those moans, hip thrusts and wet lips are real orgasms, not stagecraft.

What exactly are you looking to see from these videos? Focus on how the girl touches herself and uses her sex toys.

Go slow motion mode if possible, paying attention to how she touches her clit and lips, what angle she uses to put her fingers inside her, whether she accesses her anus, how and if she rubs her breasts and the rest of her body, if she uses lubricant, and especially how she thrusts and moves her fingers or sex toys inside herself.

This gives you good instruction on how to use your fingers and penis to please a woman. Fun, eh?

Watch Porn That Shows Two Girls Making Love

Lesbian porn, otherwise known as girl-girl porn or bi-sexual girl porn…it’s pretty much all the same thing- two or more girls having sex with no guys in the picture.

These types of videos can be like a wild double or triple dose of a solo girl masturbating, except it’s even more relevant to your learning process because it shows one person pleasing another person, rather than one person pleasing only herself.

As with other types of porn videos, you’ll work to find the ones where the girls are really into each other rather than just going through the motions.

In these videos, the big difference between this and girl masturbation is that the girls will go down on each other. This is a great opportunity for you to learn oral technique. One of the biggest problems guys have is knowing how to lick, suck and kiss the clit. Many guys can’t even find it.

Another thing you’ll see is the use of the tongue as a miniature penis, going in and out of a girl’s vagina. This works great, especially if you have a tongue that approaches the size of Gene Simmons’ tongue, from Kiss.

One technique you really want to pay attention to is the combined use of tongue and fingers. The best angle for that combo approach is for you to lay kind of sideways across your lover so you can suck on her clit as you finger her, without breaking your neck. That kind of dual attention will make her writhe in delight.

Lesbian porn also provides a tutorial in the use of sex toys, although you won’t need to learn to use a strap-on.

Girls know best how to insert sex toys into each other deep, but not painfully, and how to vary the rhythm and angle so the clit, labia, and internal vagina are all stimulated.

Watch “Romantic” Male-Female Porn

The majority of porn featuring men and women is rough, dumb and not so fun for me and other girls to watch. And for you as a heterosexual guy, I doubt that watching some other guy sticking his penis into a girl is a big turn-on for you, especially since porn seems to focus on camera angles showing the guy’s testicles and thrusting butt. Who really cares? I don’t.

However there are a few male-female porn videos showing tasteful, even romantic couplings between men and women. What can you get out of them?

You find out that there are other sexual intercourse positions than just doggy style or you on top of the girl. Whether it’s reverse cowgirl or something from the ancient sexual text, the Kama Sutra, you see that couples can be creative in joining their bodies and pleasing each other.

It’s not all just you get hard, she lies on her back, gets wet and you stick it in. There’s a far wider repertoire you can learn that makes your sexual life far more interesting.

And really guys, that’s what it’s all about…making your sexual life far more interesting. I can assure you, if you’re a hygienic, classy, nice man- and you pay attention to quality porn videos like I’ve just talked about- you will turn “sex” into a beautiful, exciting and ecstatic adventure for your woman and yourself.

If you’re in a committed relationship, your sexual skills will be one good reason for your woman to feel that you’re a great man, a real catch.

If you’re a stud who wants to sample the sexuality of many different women, your reputation as a skilled, caring, orgasm-producing lover will get you into bed with more women!

Because frankly, many guys are lazy about sex. They just want the “I’m hard, let me stick it in” trip. A girl may put up with that for a while, if she herself isn’t very sexually aware or sophisticated, but most of us girls know that we can have orgasm after orgasm if we have a man who knows how to touch, kiss, stroke and caress us inside and out.

Oh yeah, one last tip. Watch porn with your girl. Be prepared for her to quickly tell you if some porn doesn’t work for her, and which porn she really likes. Watch her body language and eyes. If she’s getting turned on, you’ve learned some inside info about what kind of sex fun she likes.

When you’re seeing something on the porn video that you’d like to do with her, ask her if she’d like it too. And then practice until you’ve got it down, all the way down.

So now you know why I say some porn sucks, but in sex, sucking isn’t always bad. Enjoy your porn, and if anyone asks you why you watch porn, say, “Because it makes me a better lover.” Or you could say, “Two thumbs up, way up,” and let them figure out where up really is :)

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