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Girl-Girl Sex: Cultivating A Bi-Curious or Bi-Sexual Girl

Bi-sexual girls for you? Bi-sexual girls for you?

Most guys fantasize about two women having sex. That’s why a huge percentage of porn and other erotic materials feature two women doing each other. But let’s be real…watching porn or looking at girl-girl sex pictures in a magazine is nowhere near as fun as actually having two bi-sexual women in your own bed. How do you achieve that?

First of all, realize that most women are not naturally bi-sexual or lesbian. They're not walking around fantasizing about putting their tongues or fingers into another woman’s vagina. They don’t see other women as sexual food the way you do. They may even see them as rivals or bitches.

If you are looking for a girlfriend or wife, or even just a sex buddy, be totally up front about your sexual desires from the start. Ask the girl if she is bi-sexual, or at least bi-curious. Be aware that some women will say they are bi-sexual or bi-curious when they don’t really mean it, mainly because they think it will turn you on for them to say that.

You need to find out if the girl honestly does have an in-born desire to have sex with another woman. The elements of sexual desire are basic, and somewhat animalistic. When a heterosexual woman desires a penis inside her, that’s born desire. When a girl loves the taste of another woman’s vagina the way you love the taste of a vagina, that’s desire too. So you want to find out if the girl you’re talking to really really has a burning desire to sexually touch another woman.

One great way to find out is to find out the girl’s feelings about masturbation- her masturbation, not yours! If a girl loves masturbating, then you have at least a chance of interesting her in making love with another girl. Why? Because if she loves masturbation, it means she loves touching a vagina. The fact that it’s her own vagina is somewhat significant- just because she loves to touch her own vagina doesn’t mean she’ll love to touch another girl’s vagina, but hey…it’s a start.

If a girl tells you she loves masturbating, you have an opening to spark her interest in being with another woman. You can point out that some of what she loves about masturbating (other than the fact that it feels good on her clit and inside her vagina) is probably the feeling of wetness, the smell, and the taste of a vagina. She may be a girl who looks at herself in the mirror when she masturbates. This means she might have visual desire for the look of a vagina, just like you do.

You could point out to her that another woman’s vagina might have all the lovely characteristics she enjoys about her own. Yet, I’ve met girls who love masturbating but when you bring up being bisexual or lesbian, they express disgust about the female genitals. This makes no sense, and you can point that out to them. Ask them if they think women’s vaginas are “gross,” what does that say about their own?

Another good thing about a girl who loves to masturbate is that when two girls get together sexually, most of what they’re doing is masturbating each other using fingers, tongues, mouths, dildos, and vibrators.

You can point out to the girl that having another girl touching her affords more opportunity to get the kind of pleasure she gets from masturbation. Most girls know how to touch other girls pretty well, since they have themselves to practice on. It is rare that a man knows how to masturbate a woman as well as a woman does!

Girl-girl sex also allows her to give pleasure to another person. For girls who are generous, kind, and sweet, the chance to masturbate another girl is likely to be a turn-on. After all, it is fun to see a woman have an orgasm, and your girl might enjoy that.

This is the second in a series of articles I’m writing on the topic of girl-girl sex. Based on the feedback I’ve gotten, it’s obvious that you guys value a woman’s perspective on sex. And some of you are ready to be honest with girls in your life, so that instead of you having to watch girl-girl sex porn, or pay to see strippers pretend to engage in girl-girl sex, you actually have a relationship with a woman who enjoys making love with another woman, and enjoys having you in on it.

In my future articles on this topic, I will continue to give you insight into how women think and feel about girl-girl sex. One thing you have to remember, even if a girl is bi-sexual already, if she is interested in you as a partner, she might be worried about having you witness or participate in a situation in which she’s having sex with another girl.

We girls know that when a man sees another woman wet and with her legs open… when a man sees another woman’s hidden sexuality come out in the open, it may be that the man develops a strong desire, or even personal feelings, for the other woman.

Many a relationship, and girls’ friendships, have been ruined when a guy came into the picture. Jealousy and possessiveness are natural. It’s a rare girl who is comfortable allowing another woman to get sexual with you, or in front of you.

So while I am all for you finally moving from the porn couch to the bedroom so you can actually in person witness girls having sex with each other, please consider the logistics and ethics of your fantasies before you try to make them into real-life experiences.

You might have a wonderful girlfriend or wife right now, and she’s only interested in sex with you. If you prod her to get into another woman’s vagina, it could work the way you want it so that you finally get to see two girls making love in person. Or she could leave you for a woman, or wonder why you want to see another girl’s vagina when you already have hers to look at and taste. When it comes to sex, love and females, you better think with your heart and both your heads, not just your little headJ

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