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Find Out How Being Hairless or Hairy Affects Your Sex Life

  • Written by  Gabriella Ferrari
Take it all off…or leave it hairy? Take it all off…or leave it hairy?

Dear Gabriella:

My girlfriend swears it’s a big f’in hassle to shave her pubic area but she likes it shaved and so do I. One of our female friends say shaved is popular because guys want women to look like young little girls. That’s not true for me…I just like the way it looks compared to unshaved. I have to shave my face every day. Is shaving “down there” really such a big deal?

Jim, from Bennington, Vermont

Hey Jim: Women’s body hair, especially "down there," is a relevant and sexy topic anytime, but especially in summer season when most of us women get bikini wax or spend extra time shaving or trimming to make sure people can’t see our bush when we wear a bikini.

Your girlfriend is right…for a woman in today’s society, management of pubic hair is a hassle, almost as much as it is for the hair on my head.

Smooth as silk, or naturally furry. The ins and outs of pubic hair!

And because it’s a sexual symbol, it’s got some personal and political things to it too.

I too have wondered about the way porn and erotica portray female genital hair. It used to be that hairy was sexy. Now it’s smooth and shaven.

Let me tell you, pubic hair is different for every girl.

Some of us have kinky, curly, wiry hair down there, or maybe it’s even silky soft hair, but a ton of it.

My GFs who are Latina, Greek, and Arab are prone to massive amounts of hair, which explains why a girl’s crotch is called a “beaver!”

And please, let’s not confuse that beaver with Mel Gibson and Jodi Foster’s movie “Beaver.”

I know girls who trim or shave because if they let their pubic hair grow naturally, they have a very noticeable crotch due to the soft, thick cushion of hair.

It makes their crotch look big, especially if they’re wearing tight clothing or a bathing suit, and it attracts attention.

I know girls and guys who rove up and down the beaches getting wicked pleasure seeing wisps of pubic hair, or the unmistakable upcurve of a big, hairy bush, visible despite the bikini.

Now of course, if a girl is shaved, we see the classic split "cameltoe," which is equally as thrilling.

Getting your vulva to be smooth and hairless is a tricky maneuver and one that has to be repeated for as long as you want it hairless.

Using a regular blade razor and cream is an annoying old school method that works acceptably if you have very steady hands, lots of time, and a magnifying mirror.

Me, I use two types of electric razors specifically made for the vulva.

One of them is for dense bush hair; the other is for fine pubic stubble, so you get the silky smooth hairless look and feel without worrying as much as when you use a razor blade that can cut your lips, clit or thighs.

Guys, if you have a girl whose vulva is hairless and you love it, thank her a lot, because she went to a lot of trouble to make it that way.

Some girls even go through the harsh Brazilian Wax procedure, which can be terribly painful, somewhat easy and effective, or a miserable mistake, depending on how it’s done. For example…

Or perhaps this kind of scary funny Brazilian Wax experience:

Maybe she’d try laser hair removal, which is expensive and in some cases a complete rip-off.

No matter what vulva haircut procedure you go through, your pubes grow back a little at a time, and the growback process is not so fun.

It can itch, tear up your panties, or just not look good.

So once you start with the hairless vulva look, you kind of have to be committed to maintenance. It’s worse than having to mow your lawn every other day.

The politics of shaved female genitalia are wicked and mad. Many feminist girls think that the shaved look is an encouragement of pedophilia, because a little girl before she gets sexually mature has no hair.

I kind of wonder if those feminist girls have normal body development though. Because the appearance of hair is not the only change a girl’s genitals go through as she ripens in adolescence to become a grown woman.

The difference is that a pre-pubescent girl does not have adult development of labia and clit. So when a grown woman removes the hair on her vulva and reveals the labia and clit beneath, it does not look like a pre-pubescent girl. Trust me on that one.

What are the alleged advantages of a hairless crotch? The lack of hair means its cooler and less chance for juices and odors to accumulate. Your panties and bathing suits fit better and you don’t have to worry about side hair showing.

You feel cleaner, and it’s easier to pee, get wet, handle hot weather, and clean yourself when you don’t have a big muff of hair down there.

When your lover goes down on the shaved cameltoe, he has an easier time finding the labia and clit and getting a full mouth of sensitive skin…instead of pubic hairs in his mouth.

The downside of going hairless is the pain and cost of keeping it hairless, the itch and hassle of growback, and the fact that your lover might love the look, scent, and feel of a full, hairy bush.

Also, without hair on your vag, your skin may get irritated during sex if your partner has hair on his crotch, or if a guy with a beard or mustache goes down on you.

And you lose the ability to use your pubic hair as a kind of art element that decorates your vagina, vulva, labia and clit…

I use pure cocoa butter and coconut oil on my vulva to smooth over any irritation issues. Such lovely moisturizer.

Yes, to bush or not to bush—it’s a hairy topic but some girls have it lucky. I have a Norwegian girlfriend and a Scottish girlfriend who have NEVER shaved or trimmed their bush and they are in their early 20s.

One girl’s bush is about one inch by one inch and it’s just sweet golden curls. In the right light, it looks like spun gold, I kid you not.

The Scottish girl’s bush is the diameter of a small Starbuck’s cup, silky, wispy, and coppery red.

These two girls love their pubic hair and I must admit it’s like the hair is “art” on their vulva. Really hot and attractive and beautiful, that’s how it looks to me.

Girls, if you want hairless or already are shaved, trust me when I tell you that having your lover shave you is a very sexy and intimate activity that’ll get both of you hot.

If your crotch hairstylist is a guy though, you better thoroughly train him before he puts an electric shaver or a razor blade anywhere near your crotch or thighs.

Make pubic hair management part of your sex ritual, and it’ll do a lot more than make you a smooth and clean treat for oral sex.

When your lover tends to your most sensitive area, the art of hair removal and shaping can be truly orgasmic.

As with all sex advice, if I don’t end up by saying it’s a matter of taste, I’ve left out the most important sex advice ever! Girls, whether you have a hairless vulva or hairy one, beaver or baldy…it’s your vagina, your clit, your labia, your cameltoe, and your pubes, so do with them what you think is right.

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