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Three Ways You Know A Woman Really, Really Enjoys Sex With You!

When a woman really loves what you’re doing, you can tell! When a woman really loves what you’re doing, you can tell!

 

Men and women are not always on the same planet when it comes to sex. And some of the most puzzling sexual differences are how men and women show if they are sexually aroused and totally enjoying themselves during sex.

Part of the problem is fakery. I wrote before about women faking orgasms. Of course, men have a much harder time faking orgasms, because sperm coming out of the penis (or not) tells a girl if a man had a “real” orgasm.

But women don’t spurt sperm and their orgasms are not as easy to visually verify. Instead, you gauge orgasm by the woman’s vaginal lubrication, muscle tension, and heat, and by how the woman sounds, how her body moves, and what she says during sex.

And even some of those things can be faked. So just how do you know a woman is really enjoying sex with you? Here are three female sexual arousal cues that are pretty sure signs she’s loving what you’re doing…

She’s wet…really, really wet. As regards indicators of sexual arousal, a wet vagina is equivalent to a stiff penis. Wetness is to a woman what hardness is to a man. Just like a limp penis usually means the man is not fully aroused (whether it’s because of a physiological sex dysfunction, psychological issues, or a combo of the two), if a girl’s vagina isn’t dripping gooey with sex juices, she’s probably not having as much sex fun as she’d want to.

Yes, there are physiological and age-related factors that influence how wet a woman gets, but in the absence of those factors, if a woman’s vagina stays dry or just barely moist, or doesn’t get so wet that you hear a squishy sound and feel the juices, she’s not that into the sex.

She’s holding tightly onto you, clamping you, bucking like a wild bronco. One of the great things about sex is that it takes over your mind and body, freeing you from conscious control. Or at least, that’s what good sex does…

Yes, some girls are like dead fish during sex. They just lie there passively with their legs open as you pound away. What a bore for both of you!

Of course, if you’re a selfish guy—basically using the woman’s vagina as a masturbation station—you might not care if she just lies there. You might even like that she lies there like a corpse. It’s easier to ride a horse that never moves.

But I gotta tell you, when I’m really into a guy and the sex is great, my body is having sex spasms. I can’t keep my body from moving, and why would I want to. It’s part of the grand orgasmic ride!

Whether I’m doing cowgirl, doggie, on my back, or the guy is doing oral sex on me…if the sex is great, I am holding onto my man, rolling him around, and giving him the ride of his life.

If a girl is just lying there, she’s probably not having all that much fun.

Her vagina is tightening, getting hotter, and juicing more. Don’t confuse this with rule number one. As a body defense mechanism, a girl’s vagina will lubricate at least a little even during boring sex, to prevent friction damage.

But when a girl is really really into lovemaking, her vagina will tell you. Generous amounts of wetness are one way to know, but there are other things to look for too.

For one thing, if she’s really into the sex, her vagina will spasm-tighten as she approaches orgasm and during orgasm.

If you have your penis, tongue, or fingers deep enough inside her, you’ll feel sudden gushes of juice, her vagina will tighten, and it will be obvious she’s about to orgasm.

You’ll feel the interior of her vagina get super-hot, like someone turned on an infrared sauna inside there.

So, yes, these are surefire, non-verbal ways you'll know a woman is really enjoying sex with you. Vaginal wetness, body movements, and vagina spasming are all good indicators that the girl is having great sex.

If you’re not seeing these sexual arousal signs when you’re making love, I suggest a sex pause so you can talk to your partner.

First, let her know it’s ok if she’s sexually honest with you. Then ask her if there’s anything you can do to make the moment more enjoyable.

There’s a risk in asking her that. She might feel that you’re dissatisfied with her sexual ways. If she’s inhibited or otherwise messed up about sex, she might already be insecure and self-conscious about how boring she is, or how bored she is.

Or maybe she’s just not that into you.

Yes, sex honesty is harsh sometimes, but the truth can be liberating and can help you improve your sex endeavors.

Because sex can be wild, crazy, out of this world fantastic, with you and your sex partner going to the outer limits of pleasure…as long as the girl is totally, genuinely lovin’ every minute of the lovemaking.

Copyright © Gabriella Ferrari, 2012



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